What to Wear for Your Boudoir Session: Tips to Look and Feel Confident

Your boudoir session is a celebration of your confidence, beauty, and individuality. Choosing the right outfits can make all the difference in how you feel and how your images turn out. This guide will help you select the perfect wardrobe to make your session empowering, fun, and uniquely you.

1. Start with What Makes You Feel Confident

The most important thing is wearing something that makes you feel comfortable and confident. Boudoir isn’t about dressing a certain way—it’s about showcasing your style and personality. Here are a few starting points to inspire you:

• Lingerie Sets: A matching bra and panty set is a classic choice. Opt for pieces with lace, satin, or mesh for a touch of elegance. High-waisted styles are great for accentuating curves, while plunge bras can add drama.
• Bodysuits or Teddies: These all-in-one pieces are universally flattering and create a sleek, polished look. Look for styles with unique details like open backs, lace-up designs, or sheer panels.
• Oversized Shirts or Sweaters: If you prefer a more casual vibe, bring an oversized button-up shirt (maybe your special someone’s), a cozy sweater, or even a graphic tee for a playful touch.
• Slips or Robes: Satin or lace robes make for beautiful layering pieces that can add a soft, romantic feel to your session.

2. Colors and Textures That Photograph Well

Certain colors and fabrics tend to look best on camera. Consider the following:

• Neutrals and Classics: Black, white, cream, and nude are timeless and flattering on everyone.
• Jewel Tones: Deep reds, emerald greens, sapphire blues, and rich purples add drama and elegance.
• Soft Pastels: Blush pink, lavender, or baby blue can create a dreamy, romantic aesthetic.
• Avoid Busy Patterns: Solid colors or subtle textures (like lace or mesh) tend to photograph better than bold patterns or logos, which can distract from you as the focus of the image.
• Play with Textures: Incorporate lace, satin, velvet, or fishnet for added visual interest.

3. Accessories to Elevate Your Look

The right accessories can take your boudoir session to the next level. Here are some ideas:

• Heels: A pair of heels can elongate your legs and add a touch of glam to your session. Choose a style that complements your outfit, like classic black pumps or strappy stilettos.
• Stockings or Pantyhose: Thigh-high stockings with or without garters are a classic boudoir accessory. Sheer or fishnet options add texture and intrigue.
• Jewelry: Statement necklaces, delicate bracelets, or long earrings can enhance your look. Just avoid anything too overpowering that might detract from your outfit.
• Hats or Props: A wide-brimmed hat, favorite book, or even a bottle of champagne can bring personality to your session.

4. Wardrobe Tips for Body Types

Your boudoir session is all about celebrating your unique shape and style. Here are some tips for choosing outfits that highlight your favorite features:

• Accentuate Curves: High-waisted lingerie, corsets, or wrap-style bodysuits create a flattering hourglass silhouette.
• Show Off Legs: Consider a short satin robe, a teddy, or stockings with garters.
• Highlight Your Shoulders and Back: Off-the-shoulder tops, strapless bodysuits, or open-back dresses can bring attention to these elegant areas.
• Add Length: Bodysuits or lingerie with vertical lines or details can elongate your figure.

5. Don’t Forget the Basics

• Undergarments: Bring a nude, black, and white thong to wear under sheer pieces. These help create a seamless look in photos.
• Well-Fitting Pieces: Make sure everything you bring fits properly. Too tight can be uncomfortable, and too loose can lose shape in photos.
• Clean & Wrinkle-Free: Iron or steam your outfits ahead of time to ensure they look their best.

6. Optional Add-Ons

For an even more customized experience, consider these additional wardrobe ideas:

• Partner-Inspired Pieces: Bring a shirt, tie, or jacket from your partner’s wardrobe to incorporate a personal touch.
• Seasonal Themes: Holiday-inspired lingerie, florals for spring, or bold red for Valentine’s Day can create fun, themed images.
• Statement Pieces: A leather jacket, glittery bodysuit, or bold color can make a statement if you’re feeling adventurous.

7. Preparing for Your Session

A few final tips to make sure your wardrobe works perfectly on the day of your shoot:

• Loose Clothing Beforehand: Avoid tight clothing like bras, socks, or jeans on the day of your session to prevent marks on your skin.
• Skin Prep: Moisturize your skin for a healthy glow, and skip any spray tanning at least two weeks before your session to avoid uneven tones.
• Bring Options: If you’re unsure about an outfit, bring a couple of choices, and we’ll decide together what works best.

Conclusion

Your boudoir session is all about YOU. Wear what makes you feel confident, sexy, and empowered—whether that’s a lacy bodysuit or your favorite oversized sweater. I’m here to help every step of the way, so don’t hesitate to reach out if you have questions or want feedback on your outfit choices.

Ready to book your session or need more guidance? Let’s create something unforgettable together!